Imagine this illustrative scenario: a staff meeting near the end of term. The school wants to run a workshop for parents, and Thursday afternoon looks like a good option. The classroom is available. The teachers can stay. Someone is about to put the date in a notice when a colleague asks: ‘Do we know whether that time works for families?’
It is an easy detail to miss. Inside the school, the plan makes sense. Outside it, a parent might still be at work, collecting another child or waiting for a lift. We think families should have a chance to tell schools what works for them before the arrangements are settled. Sometimes the answer is different from the one everyone expected.
Ask before the room is booked
In that meeting, staff could spend another twenty minutes guessing which time parents would prefer. Or they could ask. A short poll with realistic choices gives families a simple way to contribute while there is still room to change the plan.
Noticeboard lets schools share polls with their community through the same platform they use for school updates. For example, send a poll to the parents in the Grade 1 Circle: ‘Which one workshop time would work best for you?’ Offer ‘Thursday at 15:00’, ‘Thursday at 17:30’ and ‘Neither time’, provided the school can offer both sessions. Ask families to choose one option and reply by Friday at 16:00. Explain that responses will inform the decision, and confirm the final time in a notice to the same audience.
The question shapes the answer
‘Would you like a parent workshop?’ sounds helpful, but a yes does not tell the school whether anyone can attend on Thursday. Asking about a specific decision makes the answers easier to use. If staff also want to know which topic would help most, that deserves a separate question.
Keep the wording plain and the choices fair. Avoid making one option sound like the answer a good parent ought to pick. An option such as ‘Neither time’ can reveal a problem the suggested choices would otherwise hide. A parent who cannot attend may still care deeply about the workshop.
Look beyond the winning option
Suppose the responses favour an early evening session. That gives staff something useful to work with, but it does not mean every family can come. A parent who has not answered might have missed the poll, run out of data or simply not had a moment to respond.
Read the result alongside how many families answered and who the question was intended to reach. If only a few have replied, a reminder or a conversation with families may help before staff settle the date. In South Africa, access to devices and data can affect who gets to take part. Silence is not a vote for the school’s first idea.
Let families see what happened next
Once the school decides, close the loop. A short update might say: ‘Thank you for helping us choose a time. We are moving the workshop to early evening because that worked for more of the families who responded.’ If the preferred time cannot work, explain the constraint and what the school can offer instead.
Start with one decision where families’ answers can make a difference. Ask clearly, leave a reasonable window to reply and share the next step. The surprise might be a different time, a different topic or a barrier nobody in the meeting had thought about. That is a useful thing to learn before the invitations go out.












